The 7 Essential Mexican Wedding Traditions - Darien Chui Photography

We use cookies to help us improve, promote, and protect our services. By continuing to use this site, you agree to our privacy policy.

Continue

The 7 Essential Mexican Wedding Traditions

Educational

Mexican wedding reception traditions are some of the most elaborate and fun for guests. From dancing to food and a very meticulous wedding ceremony, guests are sure to have a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

If you’ve never been to one of these weddings, here are seven essential Mexican wedding traditions that you’ll experience.

Planning a traditional Mexican wedding? As a wedding photographer in Dallas, I’ve been fortunate to photograph several Mexican weddings and weddings of diverse and mixed cultures. If you have any questions or would like to contact me, I’d be happy to connect.

Updated: 11/16/2021

7 Essential Mexican Wedding Traditions:

1. Padrinos and Madrinas

Padrinos and madrinas are wedding sponsors. Think of them as your wedding godparents. In fact, the tradition actually has roots in the custom of choosing godparents as mentors for baptisms, confirmations and marriages.

Along with providing advice and guidance, padrinos and madrinas make financial contributions in Mexican weddings. They may pay for the engagement party or items needed for the ceremony, such as:

  • El lazo (lasso)
  • Las arras matrimoniales (coins)
  • The Bible used in the ceremony

It is an honor to be chosen to serve as a madrina or padrino. Typically, these individuals are married couples themselves who have watched the bride or groom grow up. You can have multiple madrinas and padrinos. It’s not uncommon for couples to have two to four sets.

2. El Lazo (Lasso)

The wedding lasso, or el lazo, symbolizes unity; a joining of two lives. In traditional Mexican weddings, unity ceremony is performed after the couple exchanges vows. Then, the madrinas and padrinos place the wedding lasso over the couple’s shoulders in a figure-eight shape, which represents a new beginning in the Bible.

Lasso Mexican Wedding Traditions

The lasso can be an oversized rosary, a silk cord or a flower garland. It’s typically joined in the middle by a crucifix.

The ceremony is followed by a prayer asking to bless the union. At the end of the ceremony, the lasso is removed and kept as a memento of this special day.

Wedding Details

3. Las Arras Matrimoniales (13 Coins)

The lasso can be an oversized rosary, a silk cord or a flower garland. It’s typically joined in the middle by a crucifix.

The ceremony is followed by a prayer asking to bless the union. At the end of the ceremony, the lasso is removed and kept as a memento of this special day.

13 Coins Arras Mexican Wedding

4. Mariachi

Couples may hire mariachis to sing religious songs and hymns during the ceremony and at the reception. The reception music is more upbeat and festive to celebrate the couple’s big day and get everyone out on the dance floor.

Wedding Mariachi Band
Mexican Wedding Mariachi Violinist
Mexican Wedding Mariachi Band

5. La Vibora de la Mar (Sea Snake Dance)

The Sea Snake Dance, or La Vibora de la Mar, is a traditional dance performed by the bride and groom. The couple stands on opposite chairs and joins hands to create an arch. Family and friends pass under the arch while holding hands and dancing.

The couple must not break the snake formation. As the music gets faster, it gets increasingly more difficult for the couple to keep it together. This tradition is so much fun and it really helps to bring everyone together.

Mexican Wedding Dance - Sea Snake Dance (La Vibora)

6. Tossing the Groom

The tossing of the groom, also known as el muertito, is when the males get together, lift the groom over their shoulders and toss him into the air several times. Occasionally, they’ll also pass around the groom’s shoes and leave money or gifts inside.

Tossing the Groom
Tossing the Groom at a Mexican wedding

7. Dollar Dance

The dollar dance, also known as the money dance, is a tradition of unknown origins, but it’s practiced in cultures around the world.

At a Mexican wedding, guests will “pay” for a dance with either the bride or groom by pinning dollars to their clothing. This gives them some rare one-on-one time with the couple and an opportunity to wish them good fortune.

Dollar Dance: Pinning money to the groom
Dollar Dance, dollar bills pinned to bride

Other Frequently Asked Questions:

Why do Mexican weddings toss the groom?

Called the “el muertito,” Mexican weddings are unique in the fact that they have a special event where all of the male guests throw the groom into the air.

During this time, the groom’s shoes are removed and guests stuff gifts into his pockets.
Shoes are often passed around for guests to fill with money. While the event is a popular one, there’s very little information on the significance of el muertito.

What can I expect at a Mexican wedding reception?

Mexican wedding receptions are a major event, and if you’re lucky enough to attend, you’re in for a magical night. First, you’ll be in for a major feast with all of your favorite Mexican cuisine, including:
• Meat dishes, such as chiles rellenos and spicy stews
• Spicy rice and salsa
• Mole blanco, or a delicious sauce made from nuts and chili peppers that are blended together
• Dessert table, which is the center of the reception’s décor
• Cookies, candies and chocolates
• Elaborate wedding cakes

However, food isn’t the only thing that you have to look forward to during a reception. You’ll also be dancing the night away. Of course, the Mexican wedding traditions outlined above will also be part of the equation.
You can expect mariachis to play during the reception, and the wedding, too. Hymns and religious songs are common during mass, but they also make their way into the wedding reception.

Most weddings will include an open bar with all of your favorite traditional Mexican beer and alcohol, such as tequila and margaritas. Kids will also be given a non-alcoholic drink, called aguas frescas, which is flavored water.
Of course, adults that prefer non-alcoholic drinks can also request flavored water.
Tequila shots are often passed around during the event, so if you do drink, be prepared to have your own supply of shots.

Aside from food and drink, you can also expect a lot of ornate dances, such as:
• La Vibora de La Mar, which is a bride and groom-centric dance that involves guests running through the arch that the bride and groom form with their hands. As the music gets faster, the dancing speed increases and guests have to work diligently not to break the “snake chain.”
• Dollars are pinned to the attire of guests, where males will pay for dancing with the bride and females pay for a dance with the groom.

Depending on the couple and their preference, the festivities may end for the night and continue the next day. However, many couples also opt for the La Tornaboda, which is a unique event where only special guests are welcome to attend.

What does Arras mean?

In Spanish, the word “arras” means earnest money. During the wedding ceremony, the groom will hold 13 coins in his hands and offer them to the bride. The highly religious symbolism represents Jesus and his apostles.
When the bride accepts the arras, this means that she trusts the groom.

However, the coins can also be 12 gold coins that represent the months of the year and a platinum coin, which is meant for the less fortunate.

The bride and groom will choose a couple to provide the las arras. Typically, the godparents will provide the coins as a gift to the couple. Of course, the coins can also be represented in other ways, such as through jewels.

How long do Mexican weddings last?

Due to the many Mexican wedding reception traditions outlined above, the normal Mexican wedding reception can last up to 2 days. However, the actual wedding ceremony itself lasts around 1 hour.

Mexican wedding traditions are filled with meaning, religious connotations and are beautiful and elegant. While the wedding itself lasts for around one hour, it’s not uncommon for the reception to be an all-day affair – sometimes, a two-day affair.

contact

you deserve the best for your wedding

I take on a limited number of weddings each year to ensure each couple receives the quality and attention they deserve. Plus, when you hire a Dallas wedding photographer, it’s important that we make sure we’re the right fit!

I'd love to chat more about you, your story, and your wedding day. Fill out this form, and I’ll be in touch soon.

*Note: all fields are required

share post

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.